In Maxabella’s most recent post, she writes about how much trouble her 8yo son is having trying to get to sleep. He’s scared.
In recent months Miss M has been having the same difficulties. She has been telling me about her dreams/nightmares. She has been telling her teachers. She told her classmates for her news item. But her nightmares continued.
I talked with a GP about the problem but didn’t get much joy there. It was when I spoke with Miss M’s teacher that I remembered something.
Fifteen years ago, a member of my family died suddenly. I was devastated and went straight to a wonderful friend of mine who is a school psychologist, and she threw me into the car and took me to the Oxfam shop where she bought me a gift; “Worry People”.
The Worry People are teeny tiny dolls from South America in a teeny tiny bag. The idea is that you tell these tiny people your worries, thereby giving the responsibility to them. You then put them back into their little bag, put it under your pillow and that allows you to go to sleep.
It worked then. Maybe it will work with Miss M?
It has, along with some other strategies; soft gentle music* to sleep with, a new big cuddly toy to grip on to, and special bedtime stories from Nightlights books, suggested by her teacher. We have been bad dream free for two weeks now and Miss M is calmer, more settled and doesn’t mention them, except for when we change her pillow slip – we have to make sure that the Worry People are safe, after all!
And happily, we alre all sleeping soundly now. I hope you and yours are too!
What are some of the things you have done to help with your child’s night time fears?
* Mostly Enya - not my personal fave but it works for Miss M!